Who we are.....
We have created identity maps that describe ourselves. These maps show who we are, what we like and what we do.
“Who am I?” daughter, sister, mother, etc.
"What do I like?" computers, guitar player, football fan, etc.
"Where am I from?" religion, race, nationality, hometown, etc.
"What do I look like?" Fat, chunky, dark skinned, tall, freckled, crinkly hair, etc.
"What do I sound like?" soft, loud, old, squeaky, boisterous, etc.
The last thing that we focused on was how we saw ourselves in relation to the roles involved in conflict situations: "Am I a bystander or upstander?"